"When you think about it, we actors are kind of prostitutes. We get paid to feign attraction and love. Other people are paying to watch us kissing someone, touching someone, doing things people in a normal monogamous relationship would never do with anyone who's not their partner. It's really kind of gross. "
Megan Fox
The above quote sums up perfectly the role of both the actress AND the escort. Think about it...how does an actress get more work and gain more popularity? She's only as good as her last performance, and her last reviews and it's exactly the same with us escorts...our performance and our reviews are our bread and butter.
All the successful escorts are incredibly good actresses, and shrewd businesswomen. The name of the game in escorting is to be CONVINCING. The men paying to be with you want to honestly believe that you LIKE them, and ENJOY having sex with them. As I've said in a previous post, the name of the game is to get repeat customers, because a regular is worth his weight in gold. Now the men paying you for sex generally don't look like George Clooney (if they did they wouldn't be needing to pay for it, now would they?) and you are not in the least bit physically attracted to them. That's where the escort must bring out her inner actress. She has to make that man feel like she's totally into him, and that he's giving her pleasure as a lover.
As I've said before, a guy doesn't want to feel like he's shagging a pillow, but neither does he want a false, overdramatic performance. The bottom line is that if the customer thinks he is giving YOU pleasure, the HE will get pleasure. Sure, you don't fancy him, he's not your boyfriend, and you don't enjoy sex with him...but if you want him back as a repeat customer then you have to act like he's the best thing you ever had...and this means being FRIENDLY, ATTENTIVE, AFFECTIONATE, AND BEING ABLE TO FEIGN SEXUAL RESPONSIVENESS CONVINCINGLY. You have to remember that most of these guys are pretty clueless when it comes to women and relationships generally, and if they weren't then they wouldn't be with you...so therefore faking sexual enjoyment is not a big deal, providing you don't go overboard and make it look false.
HOW TO FAKE A VERY CONVINCING ORGASM
Ok, so we've all seen when Harry met Sally and the infamous restaurant scene...but being vocal is not the main issue when it comes to faking sexual enjoyment..it's physical.
1)LUBE: When women get sexually aroused they become wet in the vaginal area, so ALWAYS make sure you are well lubed up with a good water based lubricant before a punter arrives.
2)PASSION: A female orgasm is a very intense and passionate sensation, so you need to MOVE with passion. Hold the guy tightly, kiss them on the mouth hard, feign feeling...ACT!! Imagine it's George Clooney on top of you or someone to whom you are strongly sexually attracted. Switch yourself over into an entirely fake persona...for the remaining 40 minutes of this booking you are now a sex goddess!!!
3)CONTRACT: When we orgasm our vaginal muscles contract, so an important part of faking an orgasm is contracting your vaginal muscles hard around his dick. We should all do our pelvic floor exercises daily, as they help strengthen the vaginal wall, and are very easy to fit into our daily routines.
The pelvic floor muscles are the muscles you use to stop urine flow, so next time you go for a pee, stop suddenly mid flow. Do pelvic floor exercises daily whilst standing, or sitting. Simply contract them and hold for a few seconds and then release. If you don't contract these muscles during sex with a punter he'll probably know that you didn't really orgasm.
4) BREATHING: During sex your breathing needs to speed up to make it look like you're building up to orgasm, almost in a panting like way...and after you sould almost try and act like you're gasping to give a realistic effect..
5) NOISE AND MOVEMENTS: These are what the punter will probably notice most, and are what will alert him to how much you're enjoying his dick/ oral skills...or not, as the case may be...
To convincingly feign sexual pleasure you need to send the lower part of your body into a series of rapid, sharp contractions and movements. You need to start the build up to the grand finale by making soft, pleasurable, moaning sounds...move with his body and try to follow the same rhythm..gradually make the moans louder and more intense, all the while contracting your vaginal muscles...and build up to a louder, intense final moan, taking several sharp intakes of breath, and jerking your lower body violently upwards. Now this is where you really have to act...he WANTS to see the pleasure in your face, because he wants to feel like a man. So, when you make that final last moan your face has to show pleasure, and intensity..you have to close your eyes and gasp....then slowly gasp...imagine...and really convince yourself that this is the best sex you ever had in your entire life with the hottest guy you ever saw... I might post an audio clip of how to fake a brilliant (vocal) orgasm on here later...but in the meantime check out the following song......and pay attention to the moaning in the background...Jane Birkin became the most censored girl in the world due to this VERY realistic impersonation of an orgasm!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wgacX35zBck
But remember, do not over act...this is not a low budget porno, and a customer sure won't appreciate it if you act like it is...REMEMBER: YOU ACTING LIKE YOU'RE SATISFIED=HAPPY PUNTERS=REPEAT BUSINESS=GOOD REVIEWS
Megan Fox
The above quote sums up perfectly the role of both the actress AND the escort. Think about it...how does an actress get more work and gain more popularity? She's only as good as her last performance, and her last reviews and it's exactly the same with us escorts...our performance and our reviews are our bread and butter.
All the successful escorts are incredibly good actresses, and shrewd businesswomen. The name of the game in escorting is to be CONVINCING. The men paying to be with you want to honestly believe that you LIKE them, and ENJOY having sex with them. As I've said in a previous post, the name of the game is to get repeat customers, because a regular is worth his weight in gold. Now the men paying you for sex generally don't look like George Clooney (if they did they wouldn't be needing to pay for it, now would they?) and you are not in the least bit physically attracted to them. That's where the escort must bring out her inner actress. She has to make that man feel like she's totally into him, and that he's giving her pleasure as a lover.
As I've said before, a guy doesn't want to feel like he's shagging a pillow, but neither does he want a false, overdramatic performance. The bottom line is that if the customer thinks he is giving YOU pleasure, the HE will get pleasure. Sure, you don't fancy him, he's not your boyfriend, and you don't enjoy sex with him...but if you want him back as a repeat customer then you have to act like he's the best thing you ever had...and this means being FRIENDLY, ATTENTIVE, AFFECTIONATE, AND BEING ABLE TO FEIGN SEXUAL RESPONSIVENESS CONVINCINGLY. You have to remember that most of these guys are pretty clueless when it comes to women and relationships generally, and if they weren't then they wouldn't be with you...so therefore faking sexual enjoyment is not a big deal, providing you don't go overboard and make it look false.
HOW TO FAKE A VERY CONVINCING ORGASM
Ok, so we've all seen when Harry met Sally and the infamous restaurant scene...but being vocal is not the main issue when it comes to faking sexual enjoyment..it's physical.
1)LUBE: When women get sexually aroused they become wet in the vaginal area, so ALWAYS make sure you are well lubed up with a good water based lubricant before a punter arrives.
2)PASSION: A female orgasm is a very intense and passionate sensation, so you need to MOVE with passion. Hold the guy tightly, kiss them on the mouth hard, feign feeling...ACT!! Imagine it's George Clooney on top of you or someone to whom you are strongly sexually attracted. Switch yourself over into an entirely fake persona...for the remaining 40 minutes of this booking you are now a sex goddess!!!
3)CONTRACT: When we orgasm our vaginal muscles contract, so an important part of faking an orgasm is contracting your vaginal muscles hard around his dick. We should all do our pelvic floor exercises daily, as they help strengthen the vaginal wall, and are very easy to fit into our daily routines.
The pelvic floor muscles are the muscles you use to stop urine flow, so next time you go for a pee, stop suddenly mid flow. Do pelvic floor exercises daily whilst standing, or sitting. Simply contract them and hold for a few seconds and then release. If you don't contract these muscles during sex with a punter he'll probably know that you didn't really orgasm.
4) BREATHING: During sex your breathing needs to speed up to make it look like you're building up to orgasm, almost in a panting like way...and after you sould almost try and act like you're gasping to give a realistic effect..
5) NOISE AND MOVEMENTS: These are what the punter will probably notice most, and are what will alert him to how much you're enjoying his dick/ oral skills...or not, as the case may be...
To convincingly feign sexual pleasure you need to send the lower part of your body into a series of rapid, sharp contractions and movements. You need to start the build up to the grand finale by making soft, pleasurable, moaning sounds...move with his body and try to follow the same rhythm..gradually make the moans louder and more intense, all the while contracting your vaginal muscles...and build up to a louder, intense final moan, taking several sharp intakes of breath, and jerking your lower body violently upwards. Now this is where you really have to act...he WANTS to see the pleasure in your face, because he wants to feel like a man. So, when you make that final last moan your face has to show pleasure, and intensity..you have to close your eyes and gasp....then slowly gasp...imagine...and really convince yourself that this is the best sex you ever had in your entire life with the hottest guy you ever saw... I might post an audio clip of how to fake a brilliant (vocal) orgasm on here later...but in the meantime check out the following song......and pay attention to the moaning in the background...Jane Birkin became the most censored girl in the world due to this VERY realistic impersonation of an orgasm!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wgacX35zBck
But remember, do not over act...this is not a low budget porno, and a customer sure won't appreciate it if you act like it is...REMEMBER: YOU ACTING LIKE YOU'RE SATISFIED=HAPPY PUNTERS=REPEAT BUSINESS=GOOD REVIEWS
